This blog is about finding the best match in true love . Just subscribe today email (jdsmygamer62@gmail.com) the description of your desired match and I will compare it to the other subscribers, allow you to meet at your own discretion (safe meeting habits) and let nature take it's course, or you part company and try the next one! No such thing as a match made in heaven! Don't know what you going to get until you meet it in person! Remember that!?
Tuesday, March 10, 2026
Thursday, January 8, 2026
Some ways to treat a woman like a princess, and to treat a man as a Prince?(Sub-Title "Both strive to imitate God's qualities)
A conversation with AI:
Me.
Some ways to treat a woman like a princess, and to treat a man l a Prince?
Ai response:
🤴🏻💃🏻 Treating someone like royalty is all about respect, kindness, and understanding their needs. Here are some ideas:
For treating a woman like a princess:
- Show appreciation for her (e.g., surprise gifts, compliments)
- Listen to her and prioritize her feelings
- Support her goals and dreams
- Be chivalrous (e.g., open doors, pull out chairs)
For treating a man like a prince:
- Show respect and admiration for his efforts
- Encourage him to pursue his passions
- Be supportive and a partner in his endeavors
- Give him space when he needs it (and ask for the same respect)
But let's be real, everyone is unique! 😊 What do you think makes someone feel like royalty in your world? 💭
Me:
God's attributes. Love, wisdom, power, and justice. All of this should be backed up by loyalty?
Ai response:
🔥💡 That's a powerful combo! Treating someone like royalty with those attributes in mind:
- *Love*: Show genuine care and affection
- *Wisdom*: Respect their thoughts, listen actively, and offer thoughtful advice
- *Power*: Empower them to make decisions and support their strengths
- *Justice*: Be fair, honest, and hold them accountable (and yourself!)
And *Loyalty* is the glue that holds it all together – being there through thick and thin, keeping their trust.
In your world, do you think these attributes play out differently for women vs. men, or is it more about the individual? 😊
Me:
It's the individual, but as we all perfect the Christ, so to speak, we all shall be one, so to speak!
Ai response:
🙏💫 Beautiful perspective! Sounds like you're vibing with the idea of unity and growth towards a higher standard 😊. In that context, treating others with love, wisdom, power, and justice becomes a journey of mutual growth and understanding.
As you navigate relationships, do you find that striving for those attributes helps shape how you interact with others?
Me:
Definitely, I'm not in an orange jump suit? LoL 🤣😆!
AI response
😂🤣 Ahhh, good to know you're on the right side of the law! 😎 Seriously though, sounds like you're vibing with personal growth and healthy relationships – that's awesome! What's next on your mind? 😊
Me:
Weaver these thoughts int my next blog post for Find true Love!?
AI response
Let's expand on it! 😊 Here's a longer version:
"Finding true love starts with embodying the qualities we seek. Love, wisdom, power, and justice – backed by loyalty – aren't just attributes of a partner, but of ourselves. As we grow into our best selves, we attract like-minded connections.
Think about it: when we show love, we're more likely to receive it. When we're wise, we navigate relationships with empathy. When we own our power, we build partnerships of equals. And when we stand for justice, we create a foundation of trust.
So, ask yourself: What qualities do I want in a partner? Are they qualities I'm cultivating in myself?
Let's grow into the love we seek.
Me:
Eliminate attitudes that are conducive to lust, vs True Love ?
Ai response:
🔥💡 Let's focus on cultivating attitudes that nurture True Love. To shift away from lust and towards True Love, consider eliminating attitudes like:
- Objectification: Focus on the whole person, not just physical appearance
- Selfishness: Prioritize mutual respect and care
- Instant gratification: Value deeper connections over quick fixes
- Superficial focus: Look beyond surface-level attraction
Instead, foster attitudes like:
- Empathy: Understand and connect with the other person's feelings
- Respect: Value their autonomy and individuality
- Patience: Build meaningful relationships over time
- Kindness: Prioritize compassion and care
Want to explore more on how to cultivate True Love in relationships? 😊
Me"
Yes!
Ai response:
Let's dive deeper 😊. Cultivating True Love involves nurturing a connection that's rooted in mutual growth, respect, and understanding. Here are some key attitudes to focus on:
- *Empathy*: Put yourself in their shoes and try to understand their feelings and perspectives.
- *Vulnerability*: Be open and honest, sharing your true self with the other person.
- *Support*: Encourage and celebrate each other's growth and successes.
- *Communication*: Talk openly and listen actively, making sure to understand each other's needs and desires.
- *Respect boundaries*: Prioritize consent and respect each other's autonomy.
Some questions to reflect on:
- What are my non-negotiables in a relationship?
- How do I show love and care to my partner?
- What are some patterns or attitudes I've noticed in myself that might be hindering True Love?
Want to explore any of these points further or is there something else on your mind? 😊
Me:
Yes, but let's save some for the sequel! LoL 🤣 😆!
Ai response:
😂👏 Saving it for the sequel, eh? Sounds like you've got a plan! 😊 Keep building on those thoughts, and we'll be ready for part 2 whenever you're ready! 💕 What's the vibe you're thinking for the next part – more on nurturing True Love or tackling relationship challenges?
Me:
Keeping the love burning strong! 😍💓
Ai response
🔥💖 Ahhh, keeping the flames burning! 😍 That's where the magic happens! What are some ways you've found to keep that spark alive in relationships? Sharing tips or want to brainstorm new ones? 😊
To be continued:
Von Bro'
Wednesday, January 7, 2026
My own search for true love! ( Sub-Title, "The long and winding Road of Loneliness")
I really don't know where to start, the break up of my marriage if 32 years, to find out, that maybe, I have been married to the wrong woman, or the madness of online dating. All I know is that I believe in true love, because it's a simple equation to balance, two people bonding together as one. A symbiosis.
Online dating, a video game from hell
The reason why I call it that, is that this is my first time around with it, and though there are rules of engagement, very few people want to follow them. Too many have their own hidden agendas. Only very few are really looking for someone, and the whole system is controlled by the scam artist, and the greedy websites, that most likely are sharing all the proceeds, similar to the way insurance companies distribute, and control their funds. There very few Fiduciary responsible people involved.
The End Game
The end game, of my movement is to finding true love, is to create a collection of individuals that are fed up of hype and BS about online dating, and love and romance, and create a safe forum to talk And share one's experiences with online dating, and to take up arms against a sea of troubles, and to truly appose them, and end them. Word!
Von Bro'
Sunday, January 4, 2026
True Love (Sub- title Online dating, video games from hell!)
1. what is True Love
2. Is there such a thing as a match made in heaven?
3. Can we trust our hearts, at any stage of the game?
4. Some day you will meet your True princess or Prince! Really?
What is True Love
True Love, we all want it but do we really know what we are talking about? To be honest, we never do until we find it. To be blunt, true love is not one sided, both people need to be completely on the same page.
Ai's suggestions to my approach:
1. *What is True Love*: You'll dive into the nitty-gritty of defining love beyond butterflies and grand gestures.
2. *Match made in heaven*: Heavenly destined love - will you tackle the whole "soulmate" debate?
3. *Trust our hearts*: Gut feelings vs. blind trust - a great angle, given your scam experience.
4. *True princess or Prince*: Sounds like you're gonna debunk some fairy tale myths 😄.
Given your experience with scams, you might want to weave in how to distinguish genuine connections from red flags.
Ai's suggestions:
To begin I will define the four basic concepts or types of love!
1. *Eros*: Physical, passionate love (often confused with lust)
2. *Philia*: Friendship, affectionate love (think platonic love)
3. *Agape*: Selfless, unconditional love (think spiritual or altruistic love)
4. *Storge*: Familial love, affection (think sibling or parental love)
Eros, is the one closest connected with love and romance. There should be no confusion between true love and lust. Two different concepts.
(EG. Think "I want" (lust) vs. "I care" (love) ai)
Is there such a thing as a match made in heaven?
The truth of the matter is, no! How can it be, for we have never been to heaven, and we are all far from being angels 😇 ! However, there is a truth from the Bible, that applies: Two are better than one+ because they have a good reward* for their hard work. 10 For if one of them falls, the other can help his partner up. But what will happen to the one who falls with no one to help him up? 11 Moreover, if two lie down together, they will stay warm, but how can just one keep warm? 12 And someone may overpower one alone, but two together can take a stand against him. And a threefold cord cannot quickly* be torn apart. (Ecc 4:9-12)
The third strand in this bond is God being in the relationship, but if it's something else other than God, it could still work, but not as efficient, or not as lasting!
Can we trust our hearts, at any stage of the game?
A very dumb question? Hec no, in fact our hearts will fool us every time if we don't take precautions! For example:
1. Ignore red flags, because of all the green flags.
2. One might be anxious to start a physical relationship.
3. One could let the financial need take priority!
4. Both could be so caught up in the nastalgia, that they over look the facts that they are just not right for each other?
Some day you will meet your True princess or Prince! Really?
This is the hardest to avoid, for we all long for that perfect relationship, just like a fairy tale, but it only happens in fairy tales. Princess or Prince are not found, but made. Treat the one you have chosen as such, will go along way!
Von Bro'