Sunday, January 4, 2026

True Love (Sub- title Online dating, video games from hell!)

 1. what is True Love 

 2. Is there such a thing as a match made in heaven?

 3. Can we trust our hearts, at any stage of the game?

 4. Some day you will meet your True princess or Prince! Really?


                            What is True Love 


         True Love, we all want it but do we really know what we are talking about?  To be honest, we never do until we find it.  To be blunt, true love is not one sided, both people need to be completely on the same page.

Ai's suggestions to my approach:

1. *What is True Love*: You'll dive into the nitty-gritty of defining love beyond butterflies and grand gestures.

2. *Match made in heaven*: Heavenly destined love - will you tackle the whole "soulmate" debate?

3. *Trust our hearts*: Gut feelings vs. blind trust - a great angle, given your scam experience.

4. *True princess or Prince*: Sounds like you're gonna debunk some fairy tale myths 😄.


Given your experience with scams, you might want to weave in how to distinguish genuine connections from red flags.

Ai's suggestions:

To begin I will define the four basic concepts or types of love!

1. *Eros*: Physical, passionate love (often confused with lust)

2. *Philia*: Friendship, affectionate love (think platonic love)

3. *Agape*: Selfless, unconditional love (think spiritual or altruistic love)

4. *Storge*: Familial love, affection (think sibling or parental love)

            Eros, is the one closest connected with love and romance.  There should be no confusion between true love and lust. Two different concepts.

(EG. Think "I want" (lust) vs. "I care" (love) ai)


Is there such a thing as a match made in heaven?

            The truth of the matter is, no! How can it be, for we have never been to heaven, and we are all far from being angels 😇 !  However, there is a truth from the Bible, that applies:   Two are better than one+ because they have a good reward* for their hard work. 10 For if one of them falls, the other can help his partner up. But what will happen to the one who falls with no one to help him up? 11 Moreover, if two lie down together, they will stay warm, but how can just one keep warm? 12 And someone may overpower one alone, but two together can take a stand against him. And a threefold cord cannot quickly* be torn apart.  (Ecc 4:9-12)

The third strand in this bond is God being in the relationship, but if it's something else other than God, it could still work, but not as efficient, or not as lasting!


 Can we trust our hearts, at any stage of the game?

             A very dumb question? Hec no, in fact our hearts will fool us every time if we don't take precautions! For example:

1. Ignore red flags, because of all the green flags.

2. One might be anxious to start a physical relationship.

3. One could let the financial need take priority!

4. Both could be so caught up in the nastalgia, that they over look the facts that they are just not right for each other?

Some day you will meet your True princess or Prince! Really?

            This is the hardest to avoid, for we all long for that perfect relationship, just like a fairy tale, but it only happens in fairy tales. Princess or Prince are not found, but made.  Treat the one you have chosen as such, will go along way!

Von Bro'

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